It’s Not About Sex: The Attachment Reason Behind Affairs

The Adaptable, Behavior Explained Podcast, with Kelly O'Horo

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It’s Not About Sex: The Attachment Reason Behind Affairs

Most affairs aren’t about sex; they’re about an unmet need the person can’t name. EMDR therapist Kelly O’Horo explains how attachment injuries drive infidelity, and shares two stories of affairs that began after the birth of a child, when watching a wife nurture their baby reawakened a man’s own childhood wounds.